From a Ca guy:
“we was raised fairly bad, but we went to an university that received pupils from some extremely families that are rich. A rich classmate invited me off to dinner one evening whenever her family members had been visiting, and then we went along to the fanciest restaurant I would ever gone to.
“through the salad program, the waiter brought a cloth-covered platter with the thing I learned later on were chilled forks. We reached to simply take the platter away from their fingers thus I could pass it all over table towards the others. Evidently, judging through the laughter from my classmate’s sis and parents, this is a major faux pas. […]